Asking unique and fun "Would you rather?" questions created just for couples are a great way to get to know each other better. You can make this an entertaining game with mini rewards after completing each category.
Flirty Would You Rather Questions
It's fun to flirt when you're first getting to know each other. It can be even more fun once you've been together for a while.
- Would you rather share a blanket or a sleeping bag?
- Would you rather have a back massage or a foot massage?
- Would you rather get a hug or cuddle on the couch?
- Would you rather sit together on a porch swing or on a ferris wheel?
- Would you rather use body paint or play Twister?
- Would you rather meet at a bar and pretend to be strangers or pretend to fight and make up at home?
- Would you rather have a horoscope compatibility chart done or get a psychic reading?
- Would you rather make out on a couch or in a car parked overlooking the town?
- Would you rather gaze at the stars or at each other?
- Would you rather eat chocolate covered strawberries or Godiva chocolates?
Would You Rather Love Questions
You may try a few love-related questions to gauge your beloved's depth of emotions. You may be surprised by your own responses!
- Would you rather receive a box of candy or roses for Valentine's Day?
- Would you rather receive a piece of jewelry or a room makeover for an anniversary?
- Would you rather receive a greeting card or a balloon for a birthday wish?
- Would you rather receive a surprise romantic dinner or a surprise shopping spree?
- Would you rather receive a kiss on the cheek or a hug?
- Would you rather receive a love note on your car windshield at work or a sexy text message?
- Would you rather receive a single rose on your pillow or an expensive piece of chocolate?
- Would you rather receive a love note in your lunch bag or sweet candy treat?
- Would you rather receive a gift card from your favorite store or a wrapped gift, contents unknown?
- Would you rather receive wink during a business meeting or play footsie at dinner?
Would You Rather Questions About Relationships
Are you sure you know exactly where you stand in your relationship? Perhaps a few "Would you rather?" questions will clarify your status.
- Would you rather be best friends/lovers or just lovers?
- Would you rather spend a holiday alone together or with family?
- Would you rather have separate hobbies or one together?
- Would you rather go to your high school reunion alone or together?
- Would you rather sing your favorite song together or listen to a recording?
- Would you rather tell your lover a white lie to spare feelings or blurt out the truth?
- Would you rather forgive your lover or harbor a grudge?
- Would you rather try something new with your lover or stay with the tried and true?
- Would you rather spend the evening at home cuddling on the couch or painting the town red?
- Would you rather take a spontaneous trip together or plan every detail?
Romantic Would You Rather Questions
Bring on the romantic at heart test. Find out just how romantic your lover really is.
- Would you rather write your own wedding vows or copy from a website?
- Would you rather serenade your lover or hire musicians?
- Would you rather surprise your lover with rose petals strewn from the door to the bedroom or greet them at the door with Champagne?
- Would you rather find your lover waiting in a bubble bath or all packed for a surprise weekend getaway?
- Would you rather come home to dinner on the table or ushered out to your favorite restaurant?
- Would you rather spend the day together being pampered at a spa or enjoying a workout at the gym?
- Would you rather spend the evening together playing a video game or cuddled together reading a book?
- Would you rather go to a jazz club or a rock concert?
- Would you rather dance to slow music or go wild with retro disco music?
- Would you rather read poetry together or go sailing on the lake?
Funny Would You Rather Questions for Couples
Quirky or funny may be the deciding factor in your relationship. Are you too serious or too silly?
- Would you rather your lover look like Winston Churchill or Abe Lincoln?
- Would you rather your lover had a pet kangaroo or a pet chimpanzee?
- Would you rather your lover be abducted by aliens or held for ransom by the mob?
- Would you rather your lover be a conspiracy nut or a controversial politician?
- Would you rather your lover looked like your high school crush or a famous actor?
- Would you rather your lover preferred oysters or moon pies?
- Would you rather your lover couldn't remember your family's names or get lost trying to go to your mother's house?
- Would you rather your lover liked to ride donkeys or preferred to milk goats?
- Would you rather your lover wears a straw hat or chews on a toothpick?
- Would you rather your lover sound like parakeet when laughing or coughs like a bull when snorting?
Where Would You Rather Live Together Questions for Couples
Once your relationship evolves, you may be wondering where you two will live. Ask a few questions to get a feeling for what the future may hold in store.
- Would you rather live together in a mansion or a castle?
- Would you rather live together on a houseboat or a yacht?
- Would you rather live together in the mountains or the beach?
- Would you rather live together in the country or the city?
- Would you rather live together in a Manhattan apartment or house at The Hamptons ?
- Would you rather live together on the East Coast of America or the West Coast?
- Would you rather live together in a forest or a desert?
- Would you rather live together in a lake house or mountain house?
- Would you rather live together in a gated community or a rural community?
- Would you rather live together in a condo or a hotel suite?
Would You Rather Ghost Hunt Questions for Couples
This is just for the paranormal loving couple. However, you may discover you are pretty into ghosts and things that go bump in the night.
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together in a haunted cemetery or a haunted prison?
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together in a haunted museum or an abandoned hospital?
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together with a group or one guide?
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together at a school or the RMS Queen Mary?
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together at Mark Twain House Museum or Winchester House?
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together at the Gettysburg National Military Park or haunted bridge?
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together and sleep at a haunted hotel or camp out at a haunted campground?
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together at a college or grade school?
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together at a haunted historic house or haunted island?
- Would you rather go on a ghost hunt together along a haunted road or haunted bridge?
Would You Rather Lifestyle Questions for Couples
Are your lifestyles compatible? Ask a few questions and find out.
- Would you rather have solar panel or wind turbine power source?
- Would you rather have a geodesic dome or an earthship house?
- Would you rather have an organic garden or herb garden?
- Would you rather have goats or cows to make cheese?
- Would you rather have a vineyard or apple orchard?
- Would you rather have a vegetable garden or flower garden?
- Would you rather have a trout farm or an egg farm?
- Would you rather have a Christmas tree farm or timber nursery?
- Would you rather have a cattle ranch or sheep ranch?
- Would you rather have an electric car or a flying car?
Would You Rather Dine Questions for Couples
What is your true palate? You may discover you're a real foodie.
- Would you rather dine together at a restaurant or order takeout?
- Would you rather dine together on fish or beef?
- Would you rather dine together at a family-style restaurant or order off menu?
- Would you rather dine together at a diner or café?
- Would you rather dine together at a bistro or hamburger joint?
- Would you rather dine together at a taco stand or Greek food truck?
- Would you rather dine together at a steak house or a vegan restaurant?
- Would you rather dine together on trout or sea bass?
- Would you rather dine together at a fine restaurant or a barbecue joint?
- Would you rather dine together at an all-you-can-eat buffet or go on a picnic?
Would You Rather Buy Questions for Couples
So shopping is always fun, right? Find out if your lover feels the same.
- Would you rather buy a new car or classic fixer-up?
- Would you rather buy a new sofa or recliner?
- Would you rather buy a vacation mountain cabin or a beach cottage?
- Would you rather buy a big screen TV or security camera system?
- Would you rather buy dress shoes or athletic shoes?
- Would you rather buy kitchen appliances or kitchen cabinets?
- Would you rather buy tickets to an observatory or an aquatic museum?
- Would you rather buy a fishing boat or a pontoon boat?
- Would you rather buy Girl Scout cookies or Mrs. Fields cookies?
- Would you rather buy dress boots or cowboy boots?
Would You Rather Questions for Career-Minded Couples
Are you in the right careers? Maybe the two of you would enjoy having the same career or if you already do, maybe it's time for a change.
- Would you rather have careers as dancers or music composers?
- Would you rather have careers as firefighters or doctors?
- Would you rather have careers as fitness instructors or sleep therapists?
- Would you rather have careers as farmers or bankers?
- Would you rather have careers as construction company owners or owners of a fish market?
- Would you rather have careers as fashion designers or choreographers?
- Would you rather have careers as interior designers or architects?
- Would you rather have careers as entrepreneurs or college professors?
- Would you rather have careers as furniture designers or art gallery owners?
- Would you rather have careers as chefs or restaurant owners?
What Activity Would You Rather Attend Together Questions
Do you really enjoy the same things? Ask a few questions and see if you really do.
- Would you rather attend a movie or play together?
- Would you rather attend a surfing competition or golf tournament as a couple?
- Would you rather attend a football game or dog show together?
- Would you rather attend a building demolition or ceremony launching a new ship together?
- Would you rather attend a classic plane air show or the Rose Parade as a couple?
- Would you rather attend a car race or a horse race together?
- Would you rather attend a hot-air balloon rally or a bungee jump off a bridge together?
- Would you rather attend a whale watch or swim with dolphins as a couple?
- Would you rather attend a caving (spelunking) expedition or rock climbing excursion together?
- Would you rather attend a sailing regatta or Scottish games and festival as a couple?
Vacationing Together Questions for Couples
Vacation time is such an important time for fun and relaxation. Do you and your lover want to go to the same places?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together in Venice or Rome?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together in Martha's Vineyard or Williamsburg, Virginia?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together at Hilton Head, SC, or Nags Head, NC?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together at Myrtle Beach, SC or South Beach, FL?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together in Aruba or Bermuda?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together in Napa Valley or Catalina Island?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together at Yellow Stone National Park, Wyoming, or Glacier National Park, Montana?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together at Area 51, Nevada, or Roswell, New Mexico?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together exploring Machu Picchu, Peru, or the Giza pyramid complex, Giza Necropolis in Cairo, Egypt?
- Would you rather spend your vacation together on an Alaskan cruise or Danube River Cruise?
How Would You Rather Spend the Day Questions
You have a day off. What would you want to do together?
- Would you rather spend the day together at an amusement park or on a hike?
- Would you rather spend the day together parasailing or skydiving?
- Would you rather spend the day together driving in the country or enjoying a public park?
- Would you rather spend the day together at a private swimming pool or at a water park?
- Would you rather spend the day together visiting pastry shops or antique shops?
- Would you rather spend the day together at a zoo or a pet shop?
- Would you rather spend the day together at a town festival or a state fair?
- Would you rather spend the day together at a brewery or a vineyard?
- Would you rather spend the day together cleaning the garage or organizing the kitchen?
- Would you rather spend the day together going to open houses or a museum?
- Would you rather spend the day together exploring the city or attending a concert?
Would You Rather Cook/Bake/Grill Questions for Couples
Are you a baker, cook or griller? What about your lover?
- Would you rather cook a seven-course meal or a three-course meal together?
- Would you rather bake a rustic loaf of bread or a pan of muffins together?
- Would you rather cook beef stew or chicken and dumplings together?
- Would you rather cook a French entrée or an Italian entrée together?
- Would you rather cook a squash casserole or green bean casserole together?
- Would you rather bake baklava or halva for dessert?
- Would you rather grill steaks or short ribs for a Fourth of July meal?
- Would you rather grill vegetable kabobs or oysters at the beach cottage?
- Would you rather bake a pie or a cake for Thanksgiving meal?
- Would you rather bake brownies or chocolate chip cookies?
Would You Rather Drink Questions for Couples
You know what your favorite drink is, but does your lover? Test that knowledge base with a few quick questions.
- Would you rather drink a bloody Mary at home or a martini at your favorite pub?
- Would you rather drink scotch or bourbon for a game of cards?
- Would you rather drink liquor on the rocks or neat for a nightcap?
- Would you rather drink red wine or white wine for a cozy evening at home?
- Would you rather drink an espresso or cappuccino after a romantic meal?
- Would you rather drink eggnog or Champagne at a New Year's party?
- Would you rather drink sweet or unsweetened ice tea at a summer night patio dinner?
- Would you rather drink hot chocolate or coffee while snuggly by the fire?
- Would you rather drink apple juice or tomato juice for breakfast together?
- Would you rather drink regular cola or diet cola at the movies?
Would You Rather Questions Only Couples Can Answer
The answers to "Would you rather?" questions should have given you a few insights to your lover. Playing games is always a fun and unique way to breakdown barriers and build on an existing relationship.
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